or loose? What are your vajra and yoni like? What’s your level of passion and turn-on at each moment? What’s your sexual stamina? In any given lovemaking session, the following factors can influence how well vajra contacts your Sacred Gate… Fit based on relative vajra girth & yoni width Fit based on relative vajra length & yoni depth His & her PC strength & tone G-Spot type & location Erection hardness, curvature, & angle relative to his body Yoni ’s natural angle and configuration G-Spot sensitivity and preferred strokes Pubic bone contact between him and her Location and sensitivity of urethral meatus Angle of vajra entry due to chosen sexual posture. As we’ve said so many times, degree of excitement affects Sacred Gate pleasure so we can’t leave loveplay, especially regarding clio out of this equation. Justdon’tgiveuphope!The truth is out there. Or more accurately, in there. You just have to put on your intrepid explorer hats and experiment. Make believe you’re Lewis and he’s Clark. Or the other way around if you prefer. This chapter lists all the sexual positions you have to choose from. And practices to test out which work best for you. By being aware of the above variables while you’re playing, and of course staying in close communication, you’ll become your own best sex coaches.   Choosing Sexual Positions & Postures The Kama Sutra is well known for its description and graphic depiction of numerous sexual positions. Lesser known are similar treatises like the ninth-century Chandamaharosana Tantra or the Great Moon Elixir, the sixteenth-century Ananga-Ranga or Stage Of Love, the Taoist Sexual Handbook Of The Dark Girl from 600 AD, or the Secrets Methods Of The Plain Girl written for the Yellow Emperor of China. In other words, you have lots to choose from. Certainly, we encourage you to experiment and try them all. At least, all the ones your body can fit into without injury. There are seven basic sexual positions… Shakti Position (woman on top), Cow Position (rear entry), Transverse Position (side-to-side), Shiva Position (man on top), Kneeling Position (man between her legs), Yab-Yum Position (sitting), Dancing Position (standing). You can modify each using multiple variations by moving torsos, adjusting limbs, and shifting weight. To bring some order to all the options, we’ve grouped the variations of each position into several categories that we call postures.